It has quite literally been almost an entire year since I’ve written on this site. I can not believe it. I went from being a person who wrote once or twice a week to someone who wrote only one time in the last almost 365 days. 2017 has been a very long, chaotic and challenging year. We found out we were expecting baby number three in February and welcomed our first daughter into our family on October 10. I never expected that the transition from two kids to three would be as busy and as chaotic as it has.
I knew that there would be an adjustment period, but the busyness and the chaos of having one in school, one at home doing preschool work and a newborn has made my quiet moments and my devotion time very limited. Gone (for now) are the days where I am able to sit and dig deep into scripture for hours and hours without any worries or any interruptions. Instead, my days are spent teaching ABC’s, playing taxi and nursing and/or a newborn every couple of hours.
I don’t think God punishes us or is disappointed in us when we aren’t able to sit and dig deep into His word during seasons of our lives such as the one I’m in now. He knows the end from the beginning and he knows our humanity. We aren’t meant to be perfect this side of eternity. Mothering my children and loving my family well are part of his kingdom work for me during this time period. There will be days again where I can sit and dig and read for hours on end. But, for now, that isn’t possible.
Maybe you don’t have a newborn but find yourself in a busy season of life. I’ve gathered a handful of resources that I use on a daily basis to help me get the most out of the quiet moments that I get. Hopefully, some (or all!) of these will help you as well!
I have used this journal (or some variety of it..there have been a couple of different versions) for almost three years now. Gretchen had a vision for a journal that would allow women to drink deep from the well of God’s word every day. While the journal is not prompted (which I love), it does have a section for writing down your daily gratitudes, a prayer and blank lines for your scripture study. The newest version is a 90-day hardback design and also includes a tab for notes and one specifically for prayer. This is a great tool for keeping everything organized and together and a beautiful way to look back at God’s faithfulness throughout the course of 90 days.
I know it may seem redundant to list more than one journal, but these are a great option when you don’t have a ton of time. It’s one of my favorite “go to” gift ideas as well. They are beautifully designed, made with quality paper and the verses within it are right on point. Lara Casey describes these like this…
We created our Write the Word journals as a place to write out the word of God and thoughts and prayers to help you cultivate your faith. Each journal comes with preselected scripture specific to the topic of the journal so you can cultivate what matters to you, right where you are.
I have the entire new collection on my Christmas list this year and can not wait to dig into the various seasons. No matter what you’re going through right now, I guarantee that there is a journal for you.
Are we sensing a trend? I am very much a journaler. I believe in the power of the written word and the legacy that scripture and bible study leaves to those who remain when we pass on. There is nothing greater than looking back over the months and years and seeing where God has answered your prayers. When I was doing the study of Fervent I would routinely go back and forth in my prayers to see where God had given an answer. This journal is a great resource and a beautiful addition to my collection of tools for getting the most out of my quiet moments and prayer time. Each week has three pages, broken down into categories for intentional and targetted prayer, checkboxes to mark when God answers requests and so many other fun features. This journal covers 52 weeks (good for a whole year’s worth of prayers) and is not dated, so you can’t go wrong and won’t feel guilty if you miss a week. Krystal has a “try it before you buy it” section on her site as well as a great demo of how to use the journal so be sure to check it out!
This might be my favorite. I am not an early bird at all. I love my quiet time with the Lord, but I do not like to get up early. I’m the kind of person who would be content with the day not starting until 10:00 am and then not ending until later. I have always been a night owl. Now that I’m up a few times a night nursing a newborn and I spend my day running nonstop with one child or another, I generally don’t slow down once my feet hit the floor. This app has been a literal Godsend in helping me make sure that I give the Lord the first few minutes of my day. Designed with the busyness of the world in mind, this app features a brand new daily devotional straight from the word every single morning. It even has its own alarm clock with a much better tone selection than the traditional alarm clock. The devotions cover specific books of the Bible and there are optional “Experience Guides” you can purchase. I love waking up each morning and knowing that, should I not get to have a deep “sit down” time in the Word, I can fill my heart with scripture first thing.
What are some of your favorite resources for your Quiet Times or Devotionals? I’d love to know what you’re reading or studying! Leave a comment below and let me know!
Quiet Time. Those of us who grew up in the church had that drilled into us in our youth group days. Yet, how many of us learning how to actually have an effective quiet time? One of the most popular questions that I get asked through social media (especially Instagram) and email, is simply:
I’ll be honest, that question always trips me up because I don’t believe that there is any right or wrong way to do it. I think that if you come into it with an open heart expecting to hear from God, then he will meet you there.
Today, I thought that I would just kind of give you a rundown of what my daily Quiet Time looks like. Keep in mind that there is no right or wrong way to do this; this is just what works for me. I try to stick to the same schedule and do this every morning (and I’m getting better), but life y’all. And summer vacation. Need I say more?
First things first, I always make sure that I have my things together so that when I get ready to sit down and meet with the Lord, it’s all there. Some people I’ve heard talk about using a basket that they keep beside the couch, others have a place on a bookshelf. Wherever works best for YOU. For me, I rotate between two different places in our house: my office table and the kitchen table. When we moved into our house and upgraded our dining table from a four seater to a six seater, my husband and I agreed to put the old table in my office for a writing/study center. It has been a God send. I have all of my things scattered all over it’s surface so that’s generally where I study.
On the days where I have just been in my office for an unfathomable amount of time or I know that I have a long work day ahead of me, I try to mix it up and come to the kitchen table. If I’m planning to meet at the kitchen table, I usually bring my stuff out the night before so I’m not scrambling around. Trust me, in my house, when you get up, if you have any intentions of getting anything done you better be moving. My kids have sensors you see. If mama is up, everyone is up. I have to be super quiet.
I know that’s not the most original name, but that’s what I’m calling it. My quiet time bundle. Really just the basics: my Bible, the journal that I’m using at the time, highlighters and ink pens. Occasionally a spare roll of washi tape or two will end up in there as well, but otherwise, that’s all. I don’t feel the need to bring anything fancy and God doesn’t care what I bring as long as I bring an open heart and an eagerness to hear from him.
I can not emphasize this enough. Prayer is one of the most effective tools that have as believers. It’s our direct line to the Lord himself. Use it. I guarantee you that if you’re sitting down to be with the Lord, the devil is gonna throw something at you. So I firstly always pray that God would take away any and all distractions. I usually pray that He would allow my children to continue to sleep until He’s given me what He has for me that particular day. From there, I pray for my family, for protection, for our military & our country, our friends, our Compassion Children & the ministries we sponsor, as well as the prayer requests that come through my site.
I write all of my prayers out by hand. Every single one of them. I am a hair ADD and I get really side tracked with work and blog ideas and things around my house that I need to clean, so if I don’t write it down, I lose my place.
If you’re struggling with prayer, I would recommend checking out the study that I did on the book Fervent by Priscilla Shirer. It’s a phenomenal resource. I’ve also got a great resource guide here on my site full of books that I recommend, so you may find something there as well.
After I pray, if I’m doing a specific Bible Study, I dig into that. Right now, I’m doing the WOVEN Study with IF:Equip (fantastic study on making disciples…you should join if you haven’t already!). I do the study, dig into the scripture that the lesson is based around and then answer any questions that may go along with it. In the event that the study doesn’t have any questions, I do a lot of journaling. I typically ask myself three basic questions whenever I’m reading any piece of scripture-bible study or not:
This is a similar version of the SOAK (scripture, observation, application, kneeling in prayer) method, but I found that asking these questions is a bit more challenging and forces me to look a bit deeper at myself and find out how that particular scripture relates to God. The whole Bible is about God. Not us, not the disciples, but HIM. I always ensure that that’s what I’m searching for.
First, I believe that there is NO reason in the world not to mark up your Bible. We dog-ear books we love and highlight sections of book that we want to remember; the Bible is THE most important book there is, why not fall in love with it and make it your own? I use my Bible as a journal…sort of a spiritual journey that I can recap and walk back through. My goal is to have a Bible that exhibits the story of the life that I have lived and how Jesus carried me through it. One of my absolute favorite things is to see my friend Gretchen sharing pictures of her granddaddy’s bible on her Instagram feed. It’s chock full of notes and scribbles and highlights and markings. It’s a story within a story of his walk with Christ. I want that for my kids when I pass.
I use both pens and highlighters to mark up my bible. One of the best resources for marking in your Bible is the Brighten Up Your Bible Study by Jordan Lee. I can’t emphasize it enough. It’s phenomenal and I love her practice methods and simple techniques.
I generally mark up my Bible by sections. For example, right now with IF: Equip we have been focusing on the Great Commission. My Bible (and I’m pretty sure most everyone’s bible) is broken down with subheadings throughout the text. Rather than using a million different colors for just a few words, I have chosen to particularly focus on these verses [Matthew 28:16-20].
In terms of highlighting, there are a million ways you can do this [just pick a color for each section, highlight each verse separately, only highlight the key points, to name a few] but for me I use this method:
I’ll also draw lines and connections to other verses, take notes of Hebrew word meanings and anything that God specifically teaches me through a verse. If you’re wanting to really dig deep into scripture study, I can’t recommend Jane Johnson’s How to Study Scripture enough. It is a one of a kind gem and she has done SUCH a good job walking you through how to really dig into the word.
Other than, that’s basically all my friends! It’s a very simple approach but it’s working for me. My Quiet Times last anywhere from 15 minutes to two hours (depending on the time and the way my kids cooperate). Don’t feel bad if you only get five minutes in. I use the First 5 App many a morning because I am notoriously running late or over-sleeping (I like sleep, ya’ll). If you show up with an open and earnest heart, God is going to meet you there.
How do you do your Quiet times? I would love to know more about your process! Be sure to grab your FREE Highlighting Key! Feel free to print it out, laminate it, whatever works for you so you can get started breaking down the scriptures!